wat a way to start the weekend...
just hung up with one of best gal pals, lene... was just reading ms leow's blog too... sigh.. seems everyone's having relationship problems... honestly, it's inevitable..
like silly goose and i... initially, i got all paranoid and scared but now ive more or less realised that it is a phase we have to go through and overcome together if things were to progress...
yes, it has taken me more than 3 weeks to accept this fact but it does help to see things from this perspective... its not as bad as it looks if i look at it this way... yes it hurts but it makes things more bearable..
ive had friends who ask me why i put myself through these... i can always look for greener pastures... i know they dont really mean it, they're just trying to be encouraging... yes, that thought has ocurred to me before... but it's one i wont explore...
when you've found your soulmate, someone you know you can count on to be there for you regardless of anything then you'll understand why...
silly goose taught me not to give up when i encounter problems.. instead, i should stick around and find a solution for them.. problems won't resolve on their own, by running away, you're just postponing it.. eventually, it'll still come full circle..
like he said, take this time to appreciate the other things in our lives... ive come to realise how few good friends i have and i've learnt to appreciate them even more...
i've also realised how distant ive grown from my friends and that they also have their problems too.. that they also want a friend to talk to...
because of what has happened, ive learnt to see things from the other perspective and not to judge things from the surface, but rather delve deeper for the true reason lies beneath... alot of times we based our reactions from our own assumptions.. we dont bother to ask and find out why things happened the way they did.. that's how we ended up like this...
but to look at things on the brighter side, we've both grown from it and for me, i learnt alot... so on that optimistic note, i shall end this blog with a big big smile and enjoy my weekend... :)
just hung up with one of best gal pals, lene... was just reading ms leow's blog too... sigh.. seems everyone's having relationship problems... honestly, it's inevitable..
like silly goose and i... initially, i got all paranoid and scared but now ive more or less realised that it is a phase we have to go through and overcome together if things were to progress...
yes, it has taken me more than 3 weeks to accept this fact but it does help to see things from this perspective... its not as bad as it looks if i look at it this way... yes it hurts but it makes things more bearable..
ive had friends who ask me why i put myself through these... i can always look for greener pastures... i know they dont really mean it, they're just trying to be encouraging... yes, that thought has ocurred to me before... but it's one i wont explore...
when you've found your soulmate, someone you know you can count on to be there for you regardless of anything then you'll understand why...
silly goose taught me not to give up when i encounter problems.. instead, i should stick around and find a solution for them.. problems won't resolve on their own, by running away, you're just postponing it.. eventually, it'll still come full circle..
like he said, take this time to appreciate the other things in our lives... ive come to realise how few good friends i have and i've learnt to appreciate them even more...
i've also realised how distant ive grown from my friends and that they also have their problems too.. that they also want a friend to talk to...
because of what has happened, ive learnt to see things from the other perspective and not to judge things from the surface, but rather delve deeper for the true reason lies beneath... alot of times we based our reactions from our own assumptions.. we dont bother to ask and find out why things happened the way they did.. that's how we ended up like this...
but to look at things on the brighter side, we've both grown from it and for me, i learnt alot... so on that optimistic note, i shall end this blog with a big big smile and enjoy my weekend... :)
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